Dang, sorry about the amateur hour audio quality! I think I forgot to select the right inputs in Quicktime for audio recording…
This was a fun chat though. Thanks Rose and David for having me on!
I’m looking forward to it, regardless!
I’m interested in the “Shortcut related to wake up time”
Unfortunately the link requires a Relay FM account?
Sorry about that! Some of the links were placeholders that should have been fixed before the show went live - they’ve been updated now.
Is it now called this?
Yup, that’s the one!!
Lemme know if you’ve got any questions!
Hey folks - great episode! I have absolutely been where Ryan is re parenting and trying to sneak out of the room!
One thing to note though is that this link is still broken:
Goes to the home page for Typescript
This is the second time recently I’ve heard someone lament something like the lack of overlap between tech/productivity and parenting space (and related, the gender divide that seems to exist where the former is more male-dominated and the latter more female-dominated). As a fellow parent-of-a-10-month-old I too want that resource. So if anyone knows of any such thing (or wants to start one!) please share! (And if you want to start that project, please loop me in. Not sure that I can offer much in the way of skills and expertise, but I’d love to be involved.)
In the meantime it was great to hear @ryanjamurphy’s automations for some ideas. I too look forward to the toddler follow-up episode (though it will probably be too late for us). I had considered what I could do with motion sensors, but I think it’s probably overkill for someone who hasn’t even automated their lighting yet (I feel like HomeKit stuff is only just starting to be available at a reasonable price in Australia).
Not so much an automation, but related to the discussion of setting timers automatically etc: I would recommend the Huckleberry app to any new parents from about 2 months up (though Ryan is probably mostly past this, at least until a nap transition hits). They’ve recently changed their ‘Sweet Spot’ feature to be part of their paid subscription but it does all the nap-related maths magically for you.
See also my post in the thread linked in the show notes re ‘when did I last change/feed the baby’ widgets. Those were super-helpful, though, again, we’ve grown out of them.
I had to laugh at the laundry-related automation. We’re using cloth nappies and so have all. the. laundry. Omni Automation (perhaps unsurprisingly) is helping keep us all in clean clothes over here.
For Automators, I would also consider the Arlo Baby monitor. It’s HomeKit-friendly and far from perfect, but it is pretty great being able to pull up on all devices. I have an Keyboard Maestro macro to bring up the camera in PiP mode on my Mac (and make sure the volume is actually set to a respectable level), and that has come in handy a number of times.
How do you trigger/start the daily routine shortcut?
Manually. In my use case, it depended on when baby woke up, and there wasn’t a reliable way to predict or detect that automatically!
Ah, I must have misheard that. I was hoping it was connected to something.
On the other hand, I already have a shortcut I run manually when I wake up, so I could connect it to that.
Shoot, I meant to mention those directly in the episode! They are very clever. We relied on Huckleberry for naps and feeding, which was excellent at the time, but now all of our data is trapped in the app with no real export abilities. It probably isn’t necessary to keep that data somewhere, but it would be nice to have.
This is a great point, too. We’re using a Logitech Circle View for the same thing, and being able to check on baby from any device has been such a benefit!
I’ve been debating whether to take the plunge on Devonthink, and with the discount linked on this episode, I thought I might finally try. However, it seems like the link/code isn’t working and actually expired on Oct 31. Is there anything we can do to remedy this?
@ryanjamurphy Fantastic show and some great thoughts on parenting automation! You asked about photo sharing and we ultimately use iCloud Shared Albums. While everyone does not own an iOS device, at least one person in each household does, so we liked that as a better option than putting them on social platforms. It took about a month to get our families aligned but it works incredibly well now.
There have been many times I’ve asked questions on here but never felt “smart” enough to contribute to the overall community. Once I heard @ryanjamurphy talk about parenting automation I had some ideas to share. My twins are now 3.5 but I still use many of the automation from their toddler days:
Doctor visits were frequent the first year but usually scheduled. The second-year visits to the pediatrician became more sporadic due to random illnesses. I set up a shortcut to create a calendar event for appointment types that would happen regularly: Pediatrician, dentist, etc. It names the event the same way CHILD NAME - TYPE OF DOCTOR VISIT, puts in the address and the time selected. This goes on the shared calendar that my wife and I share. She has the same shortcut on her phone to make sure we are in sync. I have now made another similar one for other frequent family events.
Our pediatrician has a 24/7 nurse line. I have a shortcut that dials the number and adds the correct pauses and touchtone selection to get to said nurse line. This is truly helpful for screaming babies and first-time parents that call the nurse line all the time.
At 9:00 pm every night a Shortcut triggers my Apple Watch to change to the “nighttime” face. The alarm is for waking up, a timer for when we had them “cry it out”, a Shortcut that enables the Aqara alarm and turns off all the lights, and the Sleep app if I want a quick way to change the alarm. I wanted something basic with limited information on it to help me get back to sleep quickly.
We’ve always had a sound machine in the kids’ room. When the HomePod Minis came out, I put on in there to play white noise. Siri has a continuous white noise that can play directly from the HomePod. It also serves as a HomeKit Hub for the upstairs area. The Siri Command, “Time for the kids to sleep” triggers a shortcut to turn off the lights (HomeKit light switches), turn on the nightlight (See below), and ask if I want the humidifier on.
Vocolinc makes a decent HomeKit diffuser that also serves as a nightlight. This is set to turn on the nightlight roughly when the kids go down for naps and nighttime. We’ve also previously used this to help with naps: red light means it’s still “quiet time”, green means it’s time to get up.
EcoBee thermostats are automatically set to change the temperature in their room based on time of day and day of the week.
One I never got around to making was tracking medicine for toddlers. For the most part, we were only able to provide them with Tylenol or Motrin. These can be given every 3 hours as needed but only in certain amounts every 24 hours. My thought was to leverage Shortcuts and Airtable to track the last medicine provide, time, and overall count in 24 hours. We ultimately went low-tech and kept track on a whiteboard for which child had which dose.
Well, thank you for all your suggestions, but particularly that enjoyable rabbit hole. I spent yesterday setting up Home Assistant on a virtual machine on my old iMac with the hass-arlo integration and now, when the white noise is turned on using the button on the side of the Arlo Baby it turns on a red nightlight. If it’s between 8am and 7pm it leaves it on for an hour then turns on a yellow light, which stays on for another half hour and then is replaced by a green light. It does a similar thing in the morning, and also now turns the light off when the white noise is turned off.
Is this a necessary automation? Definitely not. Will Mr Almost-1 understand why his light keeps changing colours? Nope (at least not for now). But it was fun–certainly more outside of my comfort zone than other automations I’ve implemented–and is a cool little visual indicator for me as to how long he’s been down for a nap.
Now I just need more HomeKit stuff to play with…this is literally all I have.
I would love to find a way to automatically trigger a Shortcut to change my watch face (and maybe put it into “Water” mode to avoid little fingers) when it’s turned on or off (and I’m home) but I suspect there’re not a way to do this without confirmation at the moment, certainly while my always-on iMac can’t be updated to the latest OS and I don’t have a PushCut server…but open to any suggestions.
Catching up with older podcasts. There are two links:
This is sad because I want to look at the shortcuts in question.
(Found via: Automating with Ryan J A Murphy - Automators)
Hmm. Now I’m trying to remember exactly what those links were for! Hahah. Do you recall the context of how they were mentioned in the show?